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The following are my own comments to this somewhat disturbing article. While the author is right that we need to be more “relevant,” he does not give one single suggestion as to how this is done, yet seemingly blames Rick Santorum for not doing so to his liking.  Here are my comments:

I would respectfully submit that Rick Santorum did not reach the “Catholic vote” for the very reason you mentioned first, and that is  because the media is counting everyone who was ever baptized or who identifies with Rome, even if they live more like Sodom and Gomorrah. Or Hollywood.

Rick Santorum is running for President, not serving as youth leader on the “New Evangelization” front. It is not his main job to win those votes by some sort of compromise of his own character. I respect that he is the one candidate who I can believe in. I also realize that he may never win the White House or be as “relevant” as you have suggested he ought to be, but then again neither was Blessed Mother Teresa. Then again maybe his aim is sainthood rather than the Presidency.

While I still support him, I also am realistic that he was never likely to win–but he has caused more conversation on Catholicism and what it really means than any politician in recent years. He has also gone places no one expected in this campaign.  So someone is listening to his message or he would have been long out of the race like Huntsman, Pawlenty and the rest.  The fact that he is in 2nd place, even a distant one, is amazing actually.

And he did it without one iota of compromise on his Catholic Christian values. If that is not being “relevant” then I am not sure what is. And perhaps, just perhaps, that is God’s plan for him at least this time around. Maybe he is the “voice in the wilderness” we are currently walking in. Sometimes, like Ezekiel of old, we are called to loudly speak a seemingly “irrelevant” message to those who will listen, and they may indeed be the minority for the time being.

You are a youth leader–I am a lay person who tries to stay involved in my parish as well as online, and to share the Faith with others in open and hopefully charitable ways.  I think perhaps the job of direct evangelization falls more to us than to him right now.  And if we were doing our jobs, perhaps he would have actually won at least more of the “Catholic vote.”

He is not the one to point the finger at here. I look in the mirror.

Blogging, Arabia, Dark Shadows and Heaven…

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When I was debating last week about continuing my blog, I received many wonderful comments from people who I had never met, as well as friends both online and off. So I guess will stick around as long as my fingers can operate this crazy keyboard  hehe. I realized something just today from another person’s post too–this blog can and should be my legacy for others and will likely outlast me if I choose it to.

One day when I pass, be it sooner or in 30 years, these writings, good, bad, ugly or other, will still exist somewhere and be a record of my life and why as well as how I lived it. So I am writing my memoirs and didn’t even realize it! Kind of a humbling thought very honestly. But it also means some great-niece or nephew or whoever will get the big money too when it becomes a made-for-TV movie (fairly unlikely!)…because I do not expect to see that day hehe. But blogging or various other internet contacts are potentially a gift for us all to benefit from.

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Some say that the online community prevents us from reaching out to our local neighbors–I disagree.  Since the earliest days of American Online (I first signed on 17 years ago in 1995), and in more recent years with Face Book and now blogging I have connected with friends from over 100 nations, virtually every US state, and priests and ministers (and an Archbishop or two such as Chaput and now-Cardinal Burke!) who I may never myself meet but who have met or who have known such greats as the Holy Father Pope Benedict XVI or Blessed John Paul II–or others who personally  knew Blessed Mother Teresa or hosts of other amazing persons or potential saints who will live forever in this world and the next.

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I have been privileged (as well as chastised at times!) to chronicle my own changes in both my religious and political leanings, and have been challenged strongly at every juncture but have learned (and hopefully helped others to grow as well) during that evolutionary process which still goes on towards the final gift of a life with the God we all one day will face.

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I have been gifted with–just today in fact–a two-hour conversation with a new FB friend from Michigan, two states over from MN where I live, where we shared in-depth about things absolutely no one among my “face to face” family or friends has taken the time or energy to even learn about me. And I hopefully helped and encouraged him too. I think I did.  I “walked” online with and later by many phone conversations another friend, also from Michigan, for 3 full years who was confirmed a Catholic in 2006 on the same evening I was, from the moment we met in a Catholic chatroom on Yahoo until his untimely death from cancer at age 29. And I still miss Rich so very much. Our lives indeed touched each other and now I know that he prays for me from beyond. The simple crucifix I sent to his widow when he died was used on the casket during his wake and funeral. His lovely wife now has a new love in her life and a beautiful baby on the way, after having experienced more pain than any one young woman deserves at such an age. I am happy for her.  Rich is too.

I have discovered old friends from high school and college who I had wondered about for over 30 years. I have also interacted with not one, but 4 or 5 of my favorite actors or actresses from my childhood favorite television show “Dark Shadows,” among others, and who have personally at least said at very least a hello or two, one even wishing me a happy birthday this year (thanks Marie Wallace!), and another (Christopher Pennock) praying (well in his case chanting, as he is Tibetan Buddhist) for the recovery of a dear loved one from cancer. To think that they actually cared enough to do so is utterly mind-boggling to my brain and heart. I have an email or note from one not one but two of the actors from the greatest movie of all time “The Sound of Music.” I have even connected with people from worlds I am no longer a part of, but whose lives still mattered to me then and now, such as two (be scandalized if you must!) who bared it all in PLAYGIRL in the 1980s when I was a young man struggling to work through my SSA sexuality while still hanging on to a traditional marriage. Who would dream that one day I would be in contact with any of the above-mentioned people–priests to porn stars, actors to old friends from school days, and almost daily a new person who shares the Faith which is now more important to me than all of the past–my Catholic Christian journey.

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Because of certain health issues of my own I do not get out “on the town” a lot other than work, sleep, work, and more sleep. Plus in between I study a lot and live alone so my life is somewhat reticent-leaning, you might say.  But I have a world-wide family and I can talk to them day or night. You cannot sign on to the computer at any given hour without at least someone, somewhere, who is readily available to chat if you wish to do so.

Yes it is true it can be misused or overdone. And I have done both at times. It can also replace the “face to face” and we should not ever allow it to. But why choose between the two, when we can have such a great gift at our literal fingertips? A young man, a bright and brave teen who is a devout Christian from the primarily Muslim Pakistan called me and sang “HAPPY BIRTHDAY” to me last year when I turned 55, when most of my siblings or other friends and relatives and even my dad forgot to do so! I have a Christmas birthday and it is easy for it to get lost among the shuffle of other events that time of year so I am not complaining. But I saved his message to CD and will always have it and treasure it. Thank you Chris Michael.  A similar thing happened from India a few years ago with another Catholic Christian friend named John.

And, speaking of Muslim brothers and sisters, I have a FB friend who produced an I-MAX movie “Arabia” (which just came out on DVD/Blu Ray–so get to Amazon and buy it for an amazing treat!) and who I have had many warm contacts with. Many worry, and rightly so, that Muslim extremists are on the increase. They are. That however is all the more reason for us to learn from those beautiful Muslims who, like Hamzah Jamjoom, have chosen instead to be “bridge builders” and do so in such a brilliant way. And who would guess I would be able to one day speak, at least online, to this extraordinary young man who loves God and humanity.

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The entire world is ours right now. We should enjoy it while we can. One day it may not be. But today–TODAY–whatever faults FB or “Al Gore‘s Internet” may have, we still have an online community made up of real people and a world that I would not have dreamed of knowing or connecting with as a child or young adult. Even early rock stars or those in Hollywood did not have the opportunity for contacts that the average person can have today at the flip of a switch.

So yes let’s use it–just don’t abuse it. And to each of you and to those I may not have specifically mentioned,  I have a feeling this short answer may develop into a much longer post one day…so much more to say.  But the short answer is this…we would not have touched one another had it not been for this crazy internet thing…and thank you all for reading the blog and letting me know my words actually do matter.  God bless–lots– to my friends and family, old, new, and yet to be known.  I think this may be a small taste of what heaven will be like.

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HHS Mandates, Families, and Sometimes Strained Friendships

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Jesus told us that, should we choose to follow after Him, that many of those most vociferously opposing us would be those we are closest to, whether family or friends. While far from experiencing what Jesus went through, I have learned more and more of late the truth of this when attempting to fight in some small way the culture of death and jeopardy to religious freedom that we live in today.

Below,  in context, is an example of what happened to our own Lord Jesus Christ when He “went home” after becoming well-known and arguably the most powerful spiritual leader within Judaism of his time or thereafter. The passage is Mark 6: 6-7, and the translation used is the Revised Standard Version, considered by many scholars,  both Catholic and Protestant, to be one of the very most accurate available. The bold print is added by me.

1 He went away from there and came to his own country; and his disciples followed him. 2 And on the sabbath he began to teach in the synagogue; and many who heard him were astonished, saying, “Where did this man get all this? What is the wisdom given to him? What mighty works are wrought by his hands! 3 Is not this the carpenter, the son of Mary and brother of James and Joses and Judas and Simon, and are not his sisters here with us?” And they took offense at him. 4 And Jesus said to them, “A prophet is not without honor, except in his own country, and among his own kin, and in his own house.” 5 And he could do no mighty work there, except that he laid his hands upon a few sick people and healed them.  6 And he marveled because of their unbelief. And he went about among the villages teaching.

While this passage is dealing with the preaching of the Gospel in general, it with certainty applies extremely well to the recent HHS Mandate which will potentially force all religions (not only Catholic) to follow government guidelines on women’s healthcare or to be heavily fined or possibly even shut down if not. Since the Catholic health care system is the largest in the world, and Catholics make up the largest religious group in the United States, the effect on health care for both women and men could be staggering.  The effects on religious liberty even more so.

Others have written more eloquently than I could hope to on this issue, and I would not waste your time or mine in repeating their words here (I have linked to some of them at the end of this post however). But what has prompted my post today is a series of comments made by Rush Limbaugh, who arguably made a rather rash and hasty judgment of the motives behind one Sandra Fluke, a Georgetown University law student who appeared before Congress earlier this week to state her case about the “needs of women” to have access to birth control during college.

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I am not into name-calling. I do not agree with Rush or his attitude in how he presented his views here. He referred to her as a “slut” and has refused to apologize. His words have not helped the case in any way, but rather have simply lost him advertisers (ironically one has been Select Comfort, a bed company!!!). But Limbaugh for once makes a daring but valid point. A good friend and colleague of mine had a rather heated exchange with me on this whole thing last night, particularly in regards to the definition of “slut.”  I think it may be partially a generational thing, as my colleague is younger than I, but to me “slut” and “prostitute” are pretty much interchangeable. To him they are not. Rather than wrestling about the words here though, the argument Mr. Limbaugh was actually making has some validity in my opinion. Asking the government to force payment for women (or men) to have sexual relations is “slutty” on many levels.   At one point he (Rush) likened government involvement to prostitution for that very reason, and he does speak an element of truth here. By forcing payment for universally free contraception, “we the people” become the “pimps” of both men and women who choose to become sexually active, when, at least in most cases, no gun is being held to their heads to do so.

My friend rightly brought up two seeming inconsistencies, however. One is that insurance should not be forced to pay for Viagra either, since it would be doing the same thing for men. I think he is right to a large extent. We hand out “pleasure candy” to both genders and then wonder why they “eat and enjoy.” As I wrote earlier and reference below this article, we have become very good at “enabling” bad behavior in the United States and beyond. There is one difference between Viagra and contraceptives, however, and it is a “huge one” (please pardon the unplanned pun here!). Viagra can be used to create life, at least indirectly, in an otherwise infertile couple who is not able to have sexual intercourse and thus become pregnant.  Part B of that difference is that Viagra or its other forms such as Cialis do not ever remove life from this planet, however tiny. Birth control pills on the other hand do, as does the IUD(inter-uterine device) and even more true with the infamous “morning after pill,” now becoming available in many cases over the counter for anyone over age 17! Each of those ingestible or otherwise invasive contraceptives have the potential of working after fertilization, and science and medicine have proven clearly that it is at that moment of fertilization where a new life technically begins. Not even an atheist can disprove that point, nor do they try.

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The other inconsistency, which is the one Ms. Fluke spoke of, are the rare times when a woman really does have a health issue such as endrometriosis that can be helped or greatly aided by using a contraceptive such as the Pill. What interestingly appeared in a very passing way during her conversation with Congress was that Georgetown University already covers such use of those particular medications under their insurance in such cases!  While it quite apparently true that she had a good friend who was denied this by the college’s insurance administrators, that would then be the insurance who is at fault in their processing of the claim, not the college or the Church. I do not think there is a person, Catholic, Protestant, or other, who would disagree that this was a terrible injustice done to her friend. And without putting words in His Excellency’s eloquent mouth, that would most surely include Cardinal Timothy Dolan, head of the USCCB (United States Conference of Catholic Bishops).

But to change the entire way in which the contraceptive issue is dealt with by every single Catholic or otherwise religious institution in the nation due to the “fluke” (pun intended this time) of the Georgetown insurance providers is not only ludicrous, but was not seemingly her main reason for speaking on the issue at all. While extremely important, is nonetheless a side issue, albeit one that arguably must be included in the protection of women’s health on any final bill in regards to this whole complex set of issues. It, in fact, would be the only time that contraceptives ever even become a health issue. And as such, this has already been the long-standing policy of the Church on that topic. And that is no “new news.”

The late and great Father John Hardon of happy memory wrote on this exact thing a number of years ago (he passed away in December of 2000, almost 12 years ago ). In his highly informative Modern Catholic Dictionary, he writes the following on other uses of contraception rather than birth control: Again the emphasis is mine.

ENDOMETRIOSIS

A gynecological illness caused by the abnormal presence of tissue that more or less perfectly resembles the lining of the uterus (endometrium) but growing outside of the uterus itself and distributed in other pelvic areas. Since this aberrant endometrial tissue responds to the hormone-induced changes of the woman’s menstrual cycle but, unlike the true endometrial lining of the uterus, is entrapped in other tissue such as bone and muscle, its cyclic changes of menstruation, causes the problem to repress, and even after the pregnancy improvement is sometimes sustained for a period up to three or four years.   

Since a surgical approach to the problem is not always practical or successful, the so-called “contraceptive pill” has been recommended for use over prolonged periods to eliminate the cyclic changes of the menstrual cycle and thus eliminate the periodic pain of endometriosis. It should be noted, from a moral viewpoint, that although this progestational-estrogen type therapy is, in itself, essentially the same as that used in the “contraceptive pill,” it is not used in theses cases as a contraceptive. the purpose of the therapy is to ameliorate a seriously abnormal and indeed pathological condition insofar as it is aggravated by hormonal changes of the menstrual cycle. Although temporary sterility is a side effect of the treatment, contraception is not the purpose, and thus the treatment in no way conflicts with Catholic teaching.

The point of this whole thing to me is simple:  none of this has been hidden away in the proverbial “closet” somewhere. Taking certain contraceptives, if done primarily for health reasons and not reproductive ones, has not been and is not the issue here, nor will it ever become such. But when my friend’s Wisconsin Synod Lutheran minister is one day arrested for speaking out against homosexuality, just for an example, which he apparently frequently does, my friend may wish he had opposed what is the biggest affront to overall religious liberty in our time. The other point, more subtle but still serious, is that such invasiveness is pitting people against one another.  My friend and I will do just fine–but some will not. And the idea of using such difficult and divisive issues to “divide and conquer,” as it clearly appears the Obama administration is expert in doing, is reprehensible to me. I have begun to believe it is his hallmark.

Last but not at all least, I would like to share Cardinal Timothy Dolan’s official letter, as of just yesterday, on this ongoing battle. If you are Roman Catholic, you are obligated as part of your Catholic Faith to be in willing submission to what he shares here. The Bishops, particularly the Bishop of Rome (Pope Benedict XVI) are the legitimate leaders of the Catholic Church. And that is not negotiable.

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http://www.usccb.org/issues-and-action/religious-liberty/upload/Dolan-to-all-bishops-HHS.pdf

Much has been made about the fact that a significant number of Catholic couples ignore the prohibition on contraception, as if that somehow justified it. But as my dear, dear friend and brother in Christ the late Angel Cruz used to often say (and Angel knew, first-hand, having been a former heroin addict and dying of HIV/AIDS as a result in 1986, at age 33) “If the whole world decides to go to hell, that does not mean I have to.” I am with Angel.

I do not ever recommend for anyone to leave the Church.  But if you truly cannot abide by her principles and precepts, then it is far better to leave in honesty than to stay and attempt to deliberately undermine the entire leadership as some have done in this fight. Perhaps Sister Carol Sheehan, Kathleen Sebelius, and Nancy Pelosi, among others, need to be reminded that they are neither practicing Catholics nor leaders within her sacred ranks. And pretending that they are is unbelievable hypocrisy and arrogance at best, and endangering their very souls at worst.

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NOTE:  After I released this article Mr. Limbaugh did indeed apologize to Ms. Fluke.  I will leave it to the reader as to his reasons or sincerity, but at least it was not a “oops it was a wardrobe malfunction” type of apology.   Here is a link to it:

http://www.rushlimbaugh.com/daily/2012/03/03/a_statement_from_rush

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Pre-Lenten Praise and Worship

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The past few days I have been sick and am so sorry that I haven’t made my blog rounds in recent days.  I felt better today so Kevin and I took the opportunity to travel to Steubenville, OH (about a 45 minute drive from where we live) to attend a Rick Santorum rally.  I had been wanting to see him in person so it was awesome to be able to see Rick today.  

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I just have to share this--it hearkens to my own experience just a few short weeks ago here in MN, just before the "sudden Santorum surge" all over the country--which my state led the way on, by the way:). God is definitely good all the time. Blessings to Teresa Rice for this post!

I also wish to take this President's Day opportunity to share something I discovered lately, and that is the real meaning of Rick Santorum's last name.  I do so because certain folks, in the name of satire or crass humor, have misused it mercilessly in the past few years. But it is Latin for the "Holy of Holies." And whatever you may think of his political views, this man is arguably one of the holiest and yet down-to-earth Catholic Christians out there by anyone's standards. I am proud to share his first name, and would be equally proud to share his last one as well. I support him all the way.

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GO TO YOUR PRECINCT CAUCUS TONIGHT!!! LET’S CHANGE AMERICA TOGETHER AND FOREVER…

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Caucuses MATTER, especially in this coming election.  Please attend yours tonight.  I am strongly supporting Rick Santorum, and I believe his campaign can indeed keep going if we work and pray hard. But–whoever you vote for please go.

This year more than ever it is not just our right but our duty to vote and participate.  You heard it here. Check out the links below as well:

 

“Coming Out” To Rick Santorum

I am constantly amazed at the mercy of God, and how He answers prayers in totally unexpected ways. Earlier this week I learned that Rick Santorum, who as many of you know is running for President of the United States, was going to be making a pre-Caucus stop today in Minnesota (MN).  He also made one last week. In both cases, Santorum fan that I am, I was a bit frustrated as they were each on two opposite ends of my fine state, and would have required a 6-8 hour round trip drive, with no guarantee of even shaking his hand once I arrived.

But I have had a message for him that I wished to deliver, and have several times prayed for some way to share it, whether by email, voice mail, or in person.  I wanted him to know that  he was not alone in his support for traditional marriage values, and also that there were some if not many of us from SSA (same-sex attraction) backgrounds who had come to agree with his stands.  Incidentally in the interest of full disclosure, I did not always do so, even after returning to the Church.  I hurt very much for my actively LGBT (lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender) friends and family who simply want to be left alone and to live and love as they choose.  And many within that community feel exactly that, sincerely wondering why the Church is making such a fuss over it. As a result, a message such as Rick brings can at times appear to be harsh and unyielding, and therefore many stop then and there, listening no further to him or others with his views, no matter how kindly they are expressed.  I do get that.

But I also get the fact that the unraveling of marriage, not just in the same-gender realm but also within opposite-gender couples who cohabitate (or, as is the newer trend, continue to maintain their own residences while carrying on with semi-permanent relationships that supply none or at least very little of the full committment and stability marriage is meant to bring) is utterly and progressively destructive to our already fragile society. The looming crisis is larger and more insidious than we realize.

Same-sex “marriage” is, in practical terms, just another step in that redefinition process which has gone on for years now, pretty much since the sexual revolution of the 1960s, and we have now more than an entire generation who has grown up without  fully realizing the import and need for a father and mother within each home.  For these and many other reasons, not the least of which is my commitment to the Lord through the Roman Catholic Church and her core beliefs on the family and marriage, I have come to strongly support the concept of “one man and one woman.” Rather than prejudice enshrined in law as some think, it is meant as a protection for those who choose the narrower path. And Senator Rick and others who promote this view have made it clear that they do not wish to eliminate the basic rights of any couple, married or not.  But they want “pride of place” reserved for traditional marriages. It is not unreasonable in reality.

Back to Rick–I found out yesterday, thanks at least indirectly to my good friend Michael Blissenbach, a young 20-something Catholic warrior from the Twin Cities who blogs at http://bbachsbeat.com/author/mpblissenbach/ and is tirelessly fighting for both marriage and Santorum as well, that an extra stop was going to be made before our Minnesota Caucus this week, and that it would be only 30 minutes from my home. Earlier in the week he had told me about the stop today in Bemidji, MN, and I realized that somehow I was not “in the loop” as I had not heard about it. So, due to this chat with Michael, I had emailed and joined “Team Santorum” and found out via their email about this additional surprise event only yesterday. So again thanks Michael and also to Team Santorum MN!

Thus this morning I was privileged to briefly speak with Senator Santorum, and to shake his hand. I want to word-paint the scene a bit so you will know why it was so much a “God event” in my view.  First of all I woke up late.  The church service he was attending, which was held at Grace Church in Eden Prairie, MN, was to be at 9:30 AM.  My goal was to arrive an hour early and hopefully get a seat at least. Instead I woke up at 8:30 as I had not been feeling good due to some new diabetic meds I am taking. Plus (and this is no doubt the SSA side of me speaking now) my hair looked really, really bad!!!  All of the reasons not to go were looming, and besides I didn’t have a ghost of a chance to actually meet him, right?

Not exactly…and I will just say this next point to us all, me included.  When that many things go wrong or seem to be obstacles, it means one of two things:  you should either “can the plan” or go for it anyway with full trust that the God of the impossible is right there with you.  And the discernment of which to do can be difficult when both sets of voices are looming readily. And they certainly were to my sleep-weary head this morning. In any case I smashed down my hair as best it would smash, put on my best “Santorum looking” sweater, and was out of my apartment in 15 short minutes. That in itself would probably qualify as a miracle of sorts, but that was only the beginning. When I arrived at Grace, with 10 minutes to spare in fact, and no speeding I might add, I found a seat in the 9th row of the middle section of the huge sanctuary, which I am guessing holds 1500 people or close at least. “Not bad,” I thought. “At least I will see him clearly.”  By now I was getting excited. Would I somehow, someway, actually meet the man? He was scheduled to speak early, and then had to fly out quickly to his next stop in Bemidji MN where the Santorum sweater vests are being made proudly in the USA and our lovely state. So I expected him to be quickly escorted out after his talk and then that would be that. Still at least I was there, and getting pumped.

I had an aisle seat, and when he entered from the side he was placed in the front row of the same section I was in. Good sign. When he was done, numerous people got up to leave, going out through the same entrance he came in from, assuming no doubt that it would be the best way to perhaps catch him when he made his final mad dash.

Now I have been to enough large events to know that he was not likely to leave by the same door where he had entered, especially if his time was limited and it was to the extreme. So I hung tight and kept my eyes open.  His entourage seemingly left, but he quietly remained seated. And it was offering time so only the ushers were moving.  After hesitating for at least 1.5 seconds my course was clear. I simply got up, walked those 9 rows to that stage area, and suddenly I was standing, bad hair and all, in front of our humble and heroic Presidential candidate.

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What happened next was the most important moment, and the reason I believe I was there today.  I looked at him, he shook my hand (with a vice-grip grasp), and I said “I just want you to know that I am SAME-SEX ATTRACTED (and yes I nearly yelled it, as the music in Grace is not overly quiet even during the Offertory) and that I am living for God through the Church.  I support you all the way.” That was all I said or needed to say. The hand grip never ceased, in fact it may have been a bit tighter, and he simply looked at me intently and softly said “thank you.”  Maybe it was the light or perhaps just the look on his face, but I knew that my words were somehow needed and meant to be said at that exact moment  as a personal encouragement to him. If he was not “tearing up” he seemed very close to it. I pretty much doubt he gets 10 people a week from my background who personally tell him that they are standing squarely on his side. And he definitely hears constantly from those who do not, or who even hate him for it.

But God in His Mercy allowed me to impact, just a little, the good and honorable Senator from Pennsylvania who loves God and all people very obviously.  And I doubt he will remember my bad hair. I doubt too that I will ever forget this Super Bowl Sunday, regardless of who wins, or this coming election either for that matter. And lastly, I plan to stump for him at the MN Caucus this Tuesday.  I hope, if you are reading this and from MN, you will join me, whoever you are supporting. We need to be involved during this crucial time in our history.

Blessed Sunday to you all!

LATE BREAKING ADDED TREAT!!!  HERE IS THE VIDEO IN ITS ENTIRETY FROM THIS MORNING’S SERVICE AT GRACE CHURCH.  THEY DID IT IN THE STYLE OF AN INTERVIEW, AND KEPT IT SUFFICIENTLY NON-PARTISAN SO THAT IT IN NO WAY WOULD VIOLATE ANY CHURCH ENDORSEMENT REGULATIONS OR LAWS.   AT THE END WE ALL PRAYED FOR HIM TOGETHER AS WELL. THE WHOLE VIDEO IS AROUND 8 MINUTES, AND WORTH EACH OF THOSE TO WATCH.  ENJOY!